Mon 27 Feb 2006
So I?m getting myself situated in my new loft. The process so far has been exciting, difficult, nerve racking, wonderful, exasperating and liberating.
A couple of years ago I went through an ?involuntary downsizing? of my life and possessions. At the time it was remarkably hard, but it helped open my eyes to an emergent sense of ?wanting less.?
This time I am choosing a sort of voluntary simplicity (which is not the same as austere Asceticism). You could sort of call it a seriously deep spring cleaning. I am divesting myself of things like the guitar I purchased at 12 and never learned more that the first couple notes of ?Song Sung Blue? and the chorus to ?Ghost Riders in the Sky?, useless bits and pieces of outdated technology, relics I have outgrown, fodder from past times that only seemed meaningful because of the time and place they were acquired but seldom saw the light of day and a myriad useless trinkets and knickknacks that no longer have me in their thrall. Overall I am reassessing the value of the ?things? in my life.
I guess it was synchronicity that I received this message the other day. It sums up my feeling quite nicely:
In life, we tend to have an easier time acquiring possessions than we do getting rid of them. Just as we harbor emotional baggage that is difficult to let go of, our lives can tend to be filled with material objects that we may feel compelled to hold on to. Most people are not conscious of how much they own and how many of their possessions are no longer adding value to their life. They fiercely hold on to material objects because this makes them feel secure or comfortable. While it’s true that the ownership of “stuff” can make you feel good for awhile, it seldom satisfies the deep inner longings that nearly everyone has for fulfillment and satisfaction. It is only when we are ready to let go of our baggage and be vulnerable that it becomes possible to recognize the emotional hold that our possessions can have on us.
It’s not uncommon to hold on to material objects because we are attached to them or fear the empty spaces that will remain if we get rid of them. Giving away the souvenirs from a beloved voyage may feel like we are erasing the memory of that time in our life. We may also worry that our loved ones will feel hurt if we don’t keep the gifts they’ve given us. It’s easy to convince ourselves that unused possessions might come in handy someday or that parting with them will cause you emotional pain. However, when your personal space is filled with objects, there is no room for anything new to enter and stay in your life. Your collection of belongings may “protect” you from the uncertainties of an unknown future while keeping you stuck in the past. Holding on to unnecessary possessions often goes hand in hand with holding on to pain, anger, and resentment, and letting go of your material possessions may help you release emotional baggage.
When you make a conscious decision to fill your personal space with only the objects that you need or bring you joy, your energy level will soar. Clearing your personal space can lead to mental clarity and an improved memory. As you learn to have a more practical and temporary relationship to objects, positive changes will happen, and you’ll have space to create the life that you desire.
-DailyOm
February 27th, 2006 at 4:26 pm
Yes. Good for you. The box is small where important things lay.
"If you had all the ’stuff in the world’, where would you keep it"—George Carlin.
It’s very freeing isn’t it?
March 1st, 2006 at 9:39 pm
funny my wife’s and i new mantra for the year goes like this. less is more,less is more,less is more. it feels good to practice it. much love to you on your journey.
March 5th, 2006 at 2:07 pm
What an enlightening blog entry. I have noticed that "getting rid of things" does feel liberating, but never understood why. Thanks!
March 6th, 2006 at 1:40 am
good stuff.